I always offer water, but usually his sip is brief, a quick swallow before he buries his head into hollow between my chin and my shoulder.
His chubby fingers reach up, tangling into the back of my hair. Out of habit, I sing to him, usually Baby Mine or Little Boy Blue, but I know he is ready to return to his crib when his grip on my hair relaxes, fingers still caught in the messy strands of sleep.
The four of us read together at bedtime whenever we’re all home, curled together on the big bed in Mommy and Daddy’s room before Dylan and I walk downstairs, pausing to say goodnight to Abbey as Ryan tucks her into bed.
Tonight, though, Dylan is inconsolable that tooth-brushing time is over, and I have to take him downstairs to read on the glider, kissing Abbey briefly, so she can listen to Fancy Nancy without hearing him sob. After a few moments, he calms down, snuggling into his crib with his blankets and musical dog.
Climbing the stairs yet again, I open the door to my girl’s room, ceiling covered in stars projected from her stuffed turtle, always the violet stars. Her smile beams up at me from her pillow, eyes sparkling, arms reaching up for a goodnight hug and kiss.
prompt 1...
the simple things
their sleep habits are questionable, but they sure know how to melt my heart as they're keeping me awake and dependent on coffee
I loved being reminded of the simple things today. I went a different way with Mama Kat. Lovely!
ReplyDeleteSigh, this is so sweet, Angela. The best things ARE the simple things.
ReplyDeleteAww, my heart just melted a little. Love that you all read together in bed - that is a tradition I hope to have with my family, too.
ReplyDeleteMy kids think coffee is the only thing I drink.
ReplyDeletejust beautiful! :)
ReplyDeleteI love this...it's perfect.
ReplyDeleteP.S. I'm completely dependent on coffee too ;)
Very sweet . . . and so glad those days have passed for me! ;-)
ReplyDeleteI promise to remember your words when I am up again and groggy and just tired, I will remember them when I am trying to get Jacob OUT of my bed and instead just let him just stay cuddled next to me, knowing that he needs that space right now, the my nearness is something he craves. As always, you write just what I need to Remember. :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful word picture of your nighttime routine! I love hugs from my little guy.
ReplyDeletesuch a beautiful post. the routine the little guy sounds a wee bit like what goes on at our house.
ReplyDeleteWhat sweet children they are.I think all moms, all parents, can identify with this one.
ReplyDeleteBedtime can be so awesome.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are the sweetest at bedtime. I think I kiss their faces 100 times each night. Well unless it's the 4-year old refusing to GO to bed! ;)
ReplyDeleteThese are precious times...
I still love when Kate reaches up to me to kiss me goodnight. All tucked in, with Rosie, her stuffed dog, under her arm.
ReplyDeleteRosie is a sweet name for a dog. Abbey's favorite dog right now is Grampage Hooligan Ruffie. Thank goodness her favorite little lovey is just "Boop"!
ReplyDeleteEven after a rough day, that last kiss wipes the slate clean. Every time :)
I try hard to remember that when they are waking up at night or postponing bed for the millionth time. I think I tell them "I love you" and blow kisses more and more each night. Pretty soon I'm just going to sleep in the doorway ;)
ReplyDeleteIt sure can :)
ReplyDeleteThey're all sweet, aren't they? It's all that love bundled into tiny little bodies, I think.
ReplyDeleteSome days it all goes according to plan...other days, it's crazy town!
ReplyDeleteThank you! I love bedtime, and not just because it's peaceful for me. Something about winding down and just hanging out with each other is so lovely.
ReplyDeleteI will try to remember, too ;) Because mine like to figure out when I am most tired and tag team. Dylan sleeps great - Abbey is up 50 times. And switch :)
ReplyDeleteHere's to better sleep and baby cuddles :) xoxo
I think it will be a little bittersweet when they end. But I will appreciate not having to use a boatload of undereye concealer each morning.
ReplyDeleteThe other day, I mentioned to my husband "that feeling you get after three or four cups of coffee" and he was all "I never have that much coffee." Ooops :(
ReplyDeleteThank you!
ReplyDeleteI guess it's not the worst thing you could drink all day ;)
ReplyDeleteIt's one of my favorite things! Dylan already likes long books, because he doesn't have much of a choice, poor guy :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Alison! I don't always remember to enjoy these things as much as I should. Writing them helps me stay present, in a weird way.
ReplyDeleteThanks! Simple is good (most of the time) but it's hard to capture it all of the time.
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